Wednesday 12 February 2020

Mom/Oma and the Family 💗

This past Saturday we went to see my parents for the day while my brother and SIL were visiting them while in town for their short trip.


And it snowed while we were there! Not very much, but it looked pretty.


Addie "talking" to Nathan, telling him about what's been going on.


Oma and Addie.
Addie has really been such a blessing being there, entertaining them and keeping them on their toes! Everyone who meets her loves her, she is precious.


Cathy was hoping it would snow, they rarely get snow in Baton Rouge!


Hard to get a good picture, my brother was pretty toasted happy!


Genuine laughter, something about underwear...



Opa made a sponge cake for the occasion, it was delicious! Although still not quite the same as having it made in the UK, the US ingredients aren't quite the same.



Opa had a chair lift added for Oma, it's getting harder for her to use the stairs even though they were built shorter and longer for her. Nathan was the tester!



This was taken on Sunday, just before they left. They had to hold Oma up, it's getting harder for her to walk and standing up is difficult. I don't think she walks enough, but she doesn't have the energy for it.
My Mom's health overall isn't that great. She was recently in the hospital because her sodium level was so low, they wanted to monitor her heart. It turns out two of her meds were interacting with whatever salt she had added to her food, so now she's taking salt tablets daily. If Dad takes her out for an appointment, she can barely make it back in the house, thus the reason for the chair lift. She's still having to eat pureed foods, I'm not sure she'll ever be able to have proper food again which is upsetting for her. Nathan and I are supposed to visit them again this weekend, so I'm going to make some soup for her to try. It's hard to find the right food to make her, because when it goes through the sieve to take out any chunks, the flavour can change when the spices are crushed. So if any of you have any ideas, please let me know!

On a brighter note, last month Oma celebrated her 81st birthday!


I couldn't come that day, but as a surprise, Opa had some of their friends over for cake and tea.


That weekend, Gman2 and I stopped by on our way to taking him back to school.



And later on that week, Gman1 and C came to visit.


Opa loves to make everyone wear hats when he can, so this time Gman1 got him to wear one!


My Mom's health overall isn't that great. She was recently in the hospital because her sodium level was so low, they wanted to monitor her heart. It turns out two of her meds were interacting with whatever salt she was eating, so now she's taking salt tablets daily. If Dad takes her out for an appointment, she can barely make it back in the house, thus the reason for the chair lift. She's still having to eat pureed foods, I'm not sure she'll ever be able to have proper food again which is upsetting for her. Nathan and I are supposed to visit them again this weekend, so I'm going to make some soup for her to try. It's hard to find the right food to make her, because when it goes through the sieve to take out any chunks, the flavour can change when the spices are crushed. So if any of you have any ideas, please let me know!
And thanks, Cathy, for asking about her.

14 comments:

Vickie said...

I can see how much your Mom adores little Addie! It is great that your brother and SIL made it back for a nice visit with your folks. And you all! I am praying for both of your parents.

Mary said...

Lovely family photos. I surely hope your Mother starts feeling better soon and is able to eat more solid food. It must be incredibly boring to eat pureed food. I don't eat much processed food but I do like the Campbell's tomato basil that is in the plastic container. I add 1/2 as much milk to the container to thin it out. Good luck finding foods to diversify her diet.

Linda said...

What wonderful family photos Astrid. You have such a lovely family.

Linda

Jo who can't think of a clever nickname said...

Love the family photos. It's so important to spend this time together. Nathan is looking so grown-up now!
Hope you find a solution to the food problems, soup sounds good.

Cathy said...

Thank you for the update on your mom. I'm sorry she's not doing well. I love the photos and Addie looks like a great addition to the family!

RJ said...

Thinking of your Mom Astrid. I know how difficult that must be for her. I hope the soup works because there are so many great soup recipes to try out. Loved seeing your family photos...I can relate to not seeing snow. Wish your Mom a very happy birthday from all of us. RJ@stitchingfriendsforever

Cindy said...

Astrid, just came across your blog via Woolie Mammoth. You asked for ideas with your mom's food. One thing I did for my hubby was to put soups (homemade) in the blender before adding any seasonings. After they were a consistency he could handle I then put in the herbs and such. Made a world of difference in the flavor. Also would put it in an insulated coffee mug so he could sip on it when he wanted and it stayed just the right temperature for a long time. Hope this helps some.

You have a beautiful family. Your love shows through in everything.

FlashinScissors said...

Loved seeing all your photos Astrid! Especially laughed at the cheeky comment about your brother!
Gosh Nathan is growing fast! What book is he reading?
Sorry to hear about your mum’s difficulties, hope Cindy's ideas about the soup help.
Belated birthday wishes to your mum!
Hugs,
Barbara xx

Tiffstitch said...

I'm sorry to hear about your Mom's health concerns. I hope they can find some resolution for her and the soup helps too.

Julie said...

A very emotional post Astrid filled with such wonderful family times shared together with lots of love and happiness.
The snow around the chapel looks so pretty and tranquil a setting.
With love and blessings x

Magpie's Mumblings said...

Lovely to see pictures of your family. I was going to suggest something similar (re the soup) to what Cindy said.

Bethan said...

Thank you for sharing your lovely family photos. I hope the soup was a success x

Katie said...

I think about you and your family all the time. Your mother is a sweetheart. I'm sorry she isn't feeling the best. That chair lift looks nice. Jeremiah has used so many just like that. Love the photos. Hope she enjoyed the soup.

Rachel said...

Lovely family photos and memories to treasure. :)